Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Uncle Cliff

It is fitting that we should officially begin a blog about memories when the country is about to celebrate Memorial Day in recognition of those who have given their lives so that you and I might tend our gardens, play games with our families, and read in bed.

And it is fitting for me, personally, to begin sharing your stories at a time when I am so filled with thoughts and feelings about a precious uncle who went home to be with his Lord yesterday, after a long life of service to those he cherished. Although he did not give his life in war, he did serve proudly in the Navy, defending the country he loved, and he lived his civilian life with grace, humor, and faithfulness.

Although my head is handling his passing well – it was the right time; he was definitely ready; he lived his life as a gift – my heart is aching as I walk through these days of grief. One more person that I love (and who loved me) will no longer be a part of my life. He was one of the adults who made this child feel welcome in this world, and one of the people who helped to make me who I am.

5 comments:

  1. Your Uncle Cliff truely made his mark on this earth when he enriched your life and gave it meaning, by making you feel special; thus giving you assurance that you can make a positive difference in other peoples lives. What better lagacy is there?

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  2. Bonnie, I posted a comment but don't see it so here goes again. Somehow pain is more bearable when we have fond memories of a loved one and especially when we know he had a relationship with his Lord. My prayers are with you today. Annette

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  3. Cliff will always be a part of your life , and you will smile each time you think of his love!

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  4. Dear Bonnie, Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of dear Uncle Cliff. May your wonderful memories of him console you at this sad time. Nora

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  5. I loved your tribute to your Uncle Cliff. You express your love so nicely, I like how you also acknowledged how he loved you. What a wonderful memory! I especially like your last sentence: "He was one of the adults who made this child feel welcome in this world, and one of the people who helped to make me who I am." Your Uncle Cliff was, indeed, a wonderful influence because we think our memoir writing teacher is pretty special.

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