I hope you had a
very special Christmas with your loved ones yesterday. Now that the celebration
has passed, take a few minutes to relax and read about another Christmas from
many years ago. Here is a story about a day that changed the lives of Evelyn
and her husband Dwight forever. Those of us who are parents understand that
having a child transforms your life like nothing else can. Evelyn’s experience
is especially memorable because it happened on Christmas Eve.
Children are a heritage of the
Lord
Psalms 127:3
The tree was decorated and presents
wrapped; I had done all to be ready. We were all waiting for that moment to
happen when we would become parents and our parents would become grandparents.
It was the time when no one knew the sex of their baby before being born, but
somehow I knew the tiny life within me was a girl and chose only one name.
When the time came to go, a thick
blanket of wet fog covered us in eerie silence as we inched our way to the
hospital at 2:00 a.m. Dwight drove slowly with his door open to follow the
street’s center line. We were on our way to parenthood, a challenge our young
lives had not yet encountered, and we had no idea of life’s journey beyond that
night. I was convinced we were ready when Tracy entered our lives the previous
Christmas, yet she was not chosen in God’s plan to be part of our family.
St. Frances Hospital in Lynwood was an
excellent one. I was secure in their care; not afraid of labor or delivery. I
had been healthy the entire nine months and was able to work at the phone
company seven of those months. I did not realize Dwight’s nervousness. When he
left the labor room after appearing briefly and never coming back I had no idea
what he was going through, involved in my own experience. For me time passed
quickly and the pangs of a birth about to happen never raged as expected.
Arriving at 6:38a.m., on the moon
change following her due date of December 14, Lori Lynnett, was born on
December 21, weighing 8lb. 9oz. (“If a baby does not arrive on its due date, it
will on the next moon change”, I was told, and she did) I was allowed to watch
her entrance into the world coming through me but not from me. Her tiny body
was perfect. My prayer during pregnancy was for my baby to have hair. She had
more hair than I ever imagined. Giving birth was the most thrilling experience
of my entire life and it started the first time I felt a movement of life
within.
After three days Lori and I came home
from the hospital. It was Christmas Eve morning. She was our gift to share with
friends and family. She led the way into our parenthood. Our lives were forever
changed. It truly was a Christmas to remember.
That is truly a Christmas story for you and Dwight and Lori to remember right before Christmas every year. Driving in the fog gave this story quite an element of suspense. A great Christmas story Evelyn.
ReplyDeleteDear Evelyn, the photo of the fog along with your description of how Dwight had to drive with his door open to see the center of the road was eerie, to say the least; yet you were not reavaged with the pain of giving birth. I feel there are many rooted messages in thoses opposing circumstances to ponder, the 'stuff' books are made of. I'm so glad you wrote it! See, YOU DID Think of a Christmas story!!!
ReplyDeleteFrom Charlotte ~
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful Christmas story. Your writing is very good--you take me there.